Scary How These "Friendly" Words Sabotage Cold Calls

Learn the language which will open the doors todon’t know the rules or the language of
the Executive Suite. When we were kids, most of“The Top Dog” executives.
us had some adult teach us to greet people withWhat’s wrong with being polite?Nothing. In
a “Hello” or “Good Morning”, to say,fact politeness is always appropriate. It’s
“Please” and “Thank you”, and to askthe social niceties that’ll trip you up.
permission of adults before going out to play withExecutives and their assistants think and speak in
the neighborhood kids.bottom line terms. They use language that
Flash forward a couple of decades and thoseyou’ll find in a Balance Sheet, language that
same social niceties are reinforced by all sorts ofwill serve to help them make good decisions
business and sales gurus who tell us what wequickly. Through the years, the decision makers
need to know we learned in kindergarten!So,have trained themselves to cut out all fluff in
imagine my surprise when I first heard about theconversations and to be selective about where
executive committee meetings where presentersthey spend each and every precious minute of
received specific, no-nonsense instructions fortheir workday.
their conduct during these meetings.Yes, even to the point of cutting social niceties
“State your business clearly and in bottom lineout of their conversations, and choosing to spend
terms. Don’t ask us questions. Do tell ustheir precious time and energy with people who
what we need to know to make effectivethink and speak in bottom line terms.
decisions. Do not say ‘good morning.’ DoExecutives are looking for solutions to their most
not say ‘thank you for your time.’”pressing problems. Executive assistants are aware
By the time the Secretary/Drill Sergeant of theof the pressing problems and are looking for
Corporation finished briefing the “youngcallers who can provide the executive with
first-timers”, every single one of the rookiessolutions.
was shakin’ in his boots!Social niceties areYou may want to read that paragraph again.
absolutely, positively, no doubt about it, totallyExecutives and their assistants are looking to find
inappropriate at the executive level.business partners.
Being socially correct is a hard habit to break, butExecutives and their assistants are looking to
well worth the effort, as you learn new languageinvite people into the executive suites!Most sales
that will serve you particularly well when coldpros think of the executive assistant as the
calling executives.gatekeeper who has the job of keeping people
Many of your colleagues call the offices of topout. This thinking gives all of the power to the
decision makers and say something to this effect:executive assistant.
“Good Morning!” “Is this a good time?”Successful sales professionals own their power.
“May I schedule a meeting with theThey understand how their products and services
executive?”Your colleagues don’t realizebenefit their client companies. They assess cold
it but as soon as the phrase, “Good Morning”calls from the perspective of the executive
was uttered, the executive assistant quit listening.assistant and then change their cold calling script
Those seemingly innocent words triggered heraccordingly.
mind to conclude, “This caller does not belongSo how should you leverage the words of your
at the executive level.”current script?Scrutinize your current script. Strip
Then, the words that followed “Is this a goodout the social niceties. Make certain the words are
time? May I schedule a meeting with thestreamlined, focused, and bottom line. And make
executive?” only served to confirm her decisioncertain your tone of voice indicates that through
to keep the caller out of the executive suites.every spoken word, politeness reigns. Keep the
You’re probably thinking “you’vescary, seemingly friendly, social niceties out of
got to be kidding, there is nothing wrong withyour cold calling presentation and be amazed at
those words, I’ve used them all myhow quickly you are welcomed through the
life!”But from the perspectives of thepreviously closed doors of the executive
executive and the executive assistant, those verysuites!Forward this article to
words are huge, red flags indicating youfriends—they’ll thank you for it!